my son promised to come by today after church. however, in a pattern that is rapidly repeating itself, he was left with 2 vehicles with no gas and no money to buy gas. i offered to give him money to come over her, but he declined. turns out his wife is asking her mother for money. i thought she didn't believe family exchanged money, so i can only assume the money is a gift and not a loan. otherwise, to return the money would constitute an exchange. i thinks it's the paying back part she dislikes.
i hate this. it makes me want to cry because she is treating my son like a battered spouse and even sadder, he's taking it from her.
i can't change her, only court-ordered psych evaluation might be able to do that.
i didn't cry this time. does it mean i am starting not to care?
i hope not.